Guilt
When you grow up in the European culture, you grow up not even knowing with lots of guilt emotion. let me explain what this means. guilt is used on you even from a young age so you behave and do what is expected of you. for example: if you dont behave well during a family function your mother will use the emotion of guilt to make you feel bad about yourself ” you are trying to give me a heart attack from imbursement” or ” we will never be invited over again because of you.” or my favourite ” everyone will be talking about us and how bad of a mother i am.” When you are a kid you brush all of those comments a way and never think about it again. but for some unknow reason as you grow up those same comments you brushed away as a kid are now part of your subconscious and DNA. Everything you do and don’t do, even without thinking has a little bit of guilt emotion attached to it. You will say yes to a dinner or a person because you feel guilty ( your mother’s voice is in your head tel...